It is said “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.” This article will give you five ways to a man’s heart and not one of them have to do with sex.
Men are physical beings. Their interest are aroused by touch and sight. Yes, men are also interested in finding a woman they can trust and respect but they need more. So how can a woman get to a man’s heart without being sexual? The following five ways will inspire you to think of more ways to reach your man’s heart and keeping him safe at home.
Five Ways to Reach a Man’s Heart
- Massage –Take the time to massage your man’s feet and calf muscles. Most men are standing, walking, and running on their feet all day. You can reach your man’s heart by surprising him with a warm foot soak and sea scrub. (Men have no idea how good a sea salt scrub feels since this is not an item they would normally use. Do it once and they will be begging for more.) Now if you are of the opinion “His feet stink!” then set up the water before hand and invite him to soak his feet once he comes home before you get near them.
- Massage 2 – While watching television with your man you can take the time to massage his head and neck. This act of kindness will reach your man’s heart since he probably is holding a lot of tension from the days activities. This can be accomplished with one or two hands. A nice firm massaging motion will help to ease the tight muscles and provide you with one appreciative man.
- Massage 3- Just before bed offer to give your man a back massage. Take the time to rub his back from his shoulders down to the bottom of the spine. Advise that you want nothing in return and you are sure to win your man’s heart. Just taking the time to allow him to de-stress with a back massage will make him appreciate you even more.
- Make Him Laugh – When people are in relationships they are so busy worrying about the day to day chores and responsibilities they forget to laugh. The internet is a great source of jokes, video, and stories you can share with your man to reach his heart. It makes home a pleasant and welcome place he will treasure because of your thoughtfulness.
- Be His Biggest Cheerleader – The media would have us believe that men are all “idiots.” This is far from the truth. Sure they have their imperfections but they are doing the best they can as imperfect humans. They need to know they have someone there rooting for them especially when things get bad. Help him build confidence, let him know you believe in his ability to succeed, and are there to support him. Why? Because the world in which he works,lives, and socialize in has a way of beating a man down. He doesn’t need that also at home. If you want to reach a man’s heart than be there rooting for him.
The way to a man’s heart only takes time, kindness, and thoughtfulness. It is the same way to a woman’s heart. Some women today feel they should get something from the relationship without contributing. Planning to do one of these suggestions at least once a week is not asking much and will mean so much and endear you in a man’s heart.
What will you get out of it? Eternal loyalty and the world if it is in his possession to give it to you or just his unwavering love. Isn’t that what you truly want?